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[rootofnewt]

most of my life, strangers have expressed interest or disbelief when presented with my given name. it's never been a big deal for me as it's not exceptionally common in english-speaking countries in this day and age.

i do wonder, however, at the apparent lack of curiousity expressed by my fellow goths and pagans. i find myself wondering if they are so accustomed to affectation that they'd act just as non-plussed if i gave my name as Lady Ravenbutt.

Comments

[mactavish.livejournal.com]

I think Lady Ravenbutt would be a perfectly good name for you. :)

[lupa.livejournal.com]

oddly enough (if i remember your given name corectly) i knew 2 people with that name in college so it didn't even faze me :)

[firinel.livejournal.com]

I don't know what your real name is, but slightly unusual names don't phase me much. I gave my daughter a name which is unheard of in America, and even in England/Scotland is still uncommon in recent years.

I have a penchant for names like that.

[krasota.livejournal.com]

your name isn't exceptionally common, either. folks i meet with rare names tend to commisserate, rather than gawk. ;)

and i knew two jocelyns in college, as well. had a class with each of them, to boot.

[rubylou.livejournal.com]

My nifty spiffy pagan name is Lady Morgana Avoirdupois. Or else Astarte Firewombmoon---I just can't make up my mind.

Sean's is Ravenspear Elf-fucker.

[rubylou.livejournal.com]

I know a few folks with that given name as well. One man, three women.

[shaktiqueen.livejournal.com]

Pagans don't raise an eyebrow at my name either. But they do tend to assume that I took it as my pagan name and are usually shocked to find out it is my given name.
I also use my name as an on the spot IQ test. If you can pronounce it with out hesitation you automatically go on my list of people I like. If you can tell me who she is off the top of your head, I'll sleep with you. And if you don't try to give me some silly nickname I will marry you. (although James still trys to call me Percy.)

[krasota.livejournal.com]

considering i've known of persephone since i was four or five, i'll just accept a pat on the head. ;)

[mactavish.livejournal.com]

I learned about Persephone in high school. :)

Wow, I score!

[elnigma.livejournal.com]

My mother gave me what that year was probably the second most common first name behind Jenny - Yay, people knew me by my last name or last name initial. The jokes about muttering something (then loudly Raven or Moon) to get yourself a friend .. or calling "Wolf" for a boy (usually) or "Lilith" if you want to meet a girl- that probably still works. I learned that people can't catch on to pagan names that don't have sequels.. like when I used Phlogiston people would call me something Phlogiston, or ask me Phlogiston what. just one of those things I guess.

[blixa23.livejournal.com]

Lady Ravenbutt...any relation to our dear friend, A. Butt from Purdue?

[lupa.livejournal.com]

yeah, i guess that's true - and neither of us has really unique names, so that helps too :)

[anisoptera.livejournal.com]

Daughter of Demeter.

3 years of Latin.

[rat-bastard.livejournal.com]

I learned that in third grade. For some reason, Greek Myth was part of the third grade curriculum at my school. (it was a private school)

[lupa.livejournal.com]

same with me - i was reading greek mythology well before then, though.

[klwalton.livejournal.com]

Maybe it's an old-fashioned name, and I'm old enough to have known a couple of people with your name when I was growing up. I think it's lovely.

I also like Lady Ravenbutt ;-).

[sabethea.livejournal.com]

it's my surname that people don't believe in :-) and no one is prepared to pronounce it correctly straight away.

Fido. yes, just as you'd expect it to be pronounced. and i don't care. i like it. and dammit, i'm keeping it.

[ismene.livejournal.com]

No, if you gave your name as Lady Ravenbutt, I wouldp oint and laugh at you. And maybe trip you, too, but I am evil.

I dunno, your given name never surprised me any, but my name isn't that common either. I don't think my name is rare, but given the number of people that can't say it correctly, perhaps it is.