krasota (
rootofnewt) wrote2009-06-02 11:56 am
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Anger.
If anything, becoming a mother has only solidified my pro-choice stance. My pregnancy was planned and desired. I love my child.
But I wouldn't wish pregnancy or parenting on anyone who didn't want it. Nor would I ever want to force someone to carry a child who would most certainly die before or shortly after birth. If I had found myself at 20 weeks, facing an ultrasound of a fetus who had defects not compatible with life, I would have fought very hard to terminate the pregnancy, though I'm not sure what my options would have been in Virginia. The thought of bringing a child into the world only to make it suffer? That is cruel and heartless. If I had a daughter, I wouldn't want her to ever be in the position where she was forced to carry a pregnancy to term.
Dr. Tiller was killed by terrorists. And the gunman wasn't the only one.
But I wouldn't wish pregnancy or parenting on anyone who didn't want it. Nor would I ever want to force someone to carry a child who would most certainly die before or shortly after birth. If I had found myself at 20 weeks, facing an ultrasound of a fetus who had defects not compatible with life, I would have fought very hard to terminate the pregnancy, though I'm not sure what my options would have been in Virginia. The thought of bringing a child into the world only to make it suffer? That is cruel and heartless. If I had a daughter, I wouldn't want her to ever be in the position where she was forced to carry a pregnancy to term.
Dr. Tiller was killed by terrorists. And the gunman wasn't the only one.
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Speaking as someone who did clinic defense for *years* (week after week after week) and got up close and personal with the anti-choice fringe? There is no logic behind it. Only the deeply-held conviction that the child's condition is God's Will, and that we have no business interfering in the process.
The anti-choice leadership on the other hand? They're all about controlling women, and are as convinced as I am that a woman who doesn't control her reproduction doesn't control her life.